There is an irresistable attraction
and an atmosphere of love and passion. Both feel the other person
is their "type", and each tends to get a real ego boost and energy buzz from their partner. For him, the question "Is it Love or Addicion?"
is vital. Powerful sexual attraction mixed with memories of painful past experiences adds a touch of drama to the picture.
The desire to make each other happy, to lift each other up, to inspire and to help, to share resources, information and positive attitudes, opens new doors and new avenues of expression and helps to build up self-confidence. They value and respect the best in each other and this along is the key to the prosperous and successful life.
She respects his ways of doing things in life, but for him sometimes she feels like a little girl. He knows what should be done of her behalf to be more successful and mature, and he feels the responsibility as a father feels to his daughter. There is certainly an attraction escalated by the feel of safety and protection when he is around.
Friendship, Freedom, Inspiration
Where did he go? His electric personality and unusual twists in relationship strike. It reflects the time of their first date when she was looking for something new, fresh and inspirational. There was something unusual, different about his entire "act". He might be her best friend, but it is tough to let him be free.
Idealism / Illusions
Isn't she perfect? He just can't help it. Playing a role of an ideal woman is not easy, but it depends... An inability to see her real nature may lead to serious disappointments in the future.
Control / Challenges
The significance of this relationship is certain. Along with a powerful sexual attraction, the feelings of being powerless, fragile and controlled make an entire experience quite barbaric. Helping each other to recognize and heal hidden fears and emotional implications from the past can be painful. The outcome often associates with the "to kill or to be killed" situations, where the world becomes the dangerous place for both parties.
He is the part of her learning curve in life. It might be not easy to handle, but she definitely needs it.
They may not realize the significance of their relationship until later in life, but as a fact they are. In a middle while, it might be a roller-coaster experience.